Tuesday, 28 August 2012

Anxiety and how to control it- By health coach, Corona Brady from NurturePod





My Story

Anxiety is everywhere and being a holistic health coach I am seeing it more and more with my clients! That’s exactly what has triggered me to write this article!
I want to share my experiences of anxiety with you my reader.
It wasn’t too long ago when I myself was rushed to hospital with an anxiety attack. I was home in Ireland for Xmas and I had just resigned from my then corporate banking job to set up a new life in holistic health care and healing which had been a lifelong passion of mine. It was my first Xmas home in 6 ½ years so I was excited to say the least. The last thing I imagined though was to land in hospital for 2 days while there!

It was a Wednesday lunch time (I had arrived home the prior Friday morning) when it all happened, my mum had come home from work to have some lunch with me. I had spent the morning meditating, practicing yoga and studying. I was having some lunch with my mum and felt very dreamy like; my mum had noticed my eyes get sleepy and tired but didn’t mention anything. She left to go back to work when I was at the sink doing the dishes, what happened then was the scariest event yet ever to happen in my whole entire life! I went into a dream for what must have been a very long time. I looked out the window and my mum’s car had vanished (she couldn’t have been that quick!), it felt like only moments but I had to have been in that state for a very long time. I felt very confused, I felt dizzy and felt like I was going to be sick. I wasn’t really sure what was happening but felt like I was possibly losing my mind and it all happened so quickly! I went to call my mum and noticed she left her mobile behind which left me in more of a panic! So I called my sister Grainne and she tried to calm me down, she said she would call mum and get her to come back and take me to the doctor!

I called my fiancée who was in Dublin with his family and he knew by my tone something wasn’t right…he thought I was having a seizure! I took myself to my bedroom and tried to calm myself down which wasn’t happening, my heart was beating so fast it felt like it was going to pop out of my chest, I was sweating, my tummy was sick and I was shaking. My mum arrived back and took me straight to the doctor; I was vomiting in the car and in the toilet at the clinic! I was so scared; I wasn’t sure what was happening to me! With heart problems in my family, I started thinking all kinds of awful thoughts and actually convinced myself I was having a heart attack. The doctor took a reading of my heart rate and it was really high. They didn’t want to take any chances and decided to rush me by ambulance to Cavan hospital. I felt so dreamy and was drifting in and out. Next time I woke up I was lying in a bed in hospital with my mum by my side waiting to see a doctor.  It was very late that night when I finally saw a doctor, they took lots of tests and with the results they felt it best to keep me in overnight and they wanted to check my lung the following morning to rule everything out.
That night I spent on a bed trolley in the hallway of emergency, I was then eventually taken into a room in the very early mornings! The tests the next morning ruled everything out and I was sent home that afternoon – they couldn’t explain what happened and put it down to jetlag. I was so scared; I thought for sure it was going to happen again.
So it wasn’t until I returned to Sydney that I finally understood what had happened. That was an anxiety attack I had in Ireland, an extremely bad one! I started to have quite regular panic attacks in Jan/Feb and they were so bad I had to have my fiancée by my side constantly. I was so afraid to be alone!

So why the sudden and severe anxiety?
On reflection, I had made a massive life change; I had swapped a life in corporate banking to a life in holistic health and healing. It was the unknown I was scared of, I was so scared I didn’t trust myself, I didn’t think I could do this and didn’t think I would be a success! I had so many doubts and with that caused me so much anxiety!

Overcoming The Anxiety




I happily can say that now I very much have my anxiety under control and here are some helpful tips that helped me get through this very dark and scary time of my life:


•               I started each day with a fresh green juice.
•               I ditched the caffeine (coffee).
•               I meditated.
•               I sang (yes this truly uplifted me when the darkness took over).
•               I spent LOTS of time in nature. I am so lucky to live by the ocean; I took a walk every day.
•               When I felt anxiety come up, I took myself to my kitchen window and looked out at nature. A bird, a tree, the ocean etc. It so helped and pulled me back out.
•               I mixed my exercise up. I was doing too much of the one thing (Yoga) and added 1-2 swims in per week.
•               I listened to uplifting music.
•               I got on my mat and stretched.
•               I ate fresh/local/organic nutritious food and increased my protein intake.
•               I took time out to just be.
•               I read.
•               I got out and spent time with friends.
•               I used affirmations daily and still do.
•               I drank lavender tea before bed time.
•               I had a daily gratitude practice.
•               I journalled.
•               I carried snacks in my bag (nuts) at all times in case there was a drop in my blood sugar which then brought on the anxiety.
•               I started to trust the process of life because I sure hadn't been doing so up until now. I started to believe that I could succeed at this.
•               I stopped comparing myself to others; yes this was actually causing me anxiety!  I was looking at others in my field and thinking I should be there also! We all have our own unique journey to live, remember that!


About Corona Brady 












Corona is a Holistic Health and Nutrition Coach & Hatha Yoga Teacher based in Sydney.
Corona is deeply passionate about living a healthy clean lifestyle. She is certified from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition®. Based in New York City, Integrative Nutrition® is the largest nutrition school in the world. The school offers the world’s leading Health Coach Training Program™ and teaches over 100 dietary theories, practical lifestyle management techniques, and cutting-edge coaching methods.
She works with individuals to turnaround their lives by aiding them in discovering their perfect flourishing balance - Body, Mind & Soul. Through proper guidance, support, coaching, and inspiration you will begin a beautiful journey in discovering a balanced, energised, happier and healthier new you.
NurturePod is a coaching program created on the principles of nutrition, offering Yoga to support your body & Breath to bring your body, your mind & your spirit into the present moment.
Think of NurturePod as your replenishing cocoon. Like the tired caterpillar that returns to its cocoon for restoration and transformation to later spread its beautiful wings and soar off into the sunset.

Connect with Corona

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Saturday, 25 August 2012

Why I am a supplement junkie...


We are told that we get our nutrients from our daily food consumption... While this is partly the truth, in today's busy world we are restricted to eating certain foods that are usually chosen based on 'convenience'. I find most of my clients struggle to find the time to buy fresh produce and then prepare home cooked whole food meals. I understand and respect that this is the reality of the fast paced lifestyle but the truth is we are not getting enough nutrient rich foods. And we need to take it seriously because we are nothing without our health !

Daily vitamin supplements can help to ensure we are getting the proper nutrition we need each and every day. Lacking in just a few essential vitamins and minerals can cause a body imbalance, resulting in unwanted symptoms in the body. This could be the answer to some of your current body complications (low energy, stress, anxiety, depression, weight gain and hormonal imbalance)- It certainly was to mine!
In my opinion it is truly ESSENTIAL we take supplements above and beyond a healthy diet. 

WHY? 

Depleted Soils! Even if you eat a healthy, predominantly plant-based diet with lots of fruit and vegetables, chances are (unless you’re consuming everything organic) the food comes from soils that have insufficient mineral content. When foods are grown over and over again in the same soils, the mineral content of that soil becomes depleted over time.

Processed foods/additives: Most foods these days are loaded with sweeteners, salt and preservatives etc- replacing the good stuff in the foods! These additives can all lead to toxic build up in our bodies resulting in hormonal imbalance. 
Supplements can help detoxify the body from these additives.

Here is the research to back me up...

According to Dr Gert Schuitemaker, Ph.D:  "In the Netherlands, a report of the Dutch Health Council states that less than 2% of the population is eating according to official dietary guidelines. Moreover, the authorities state that, even if a person is eating according to the dietary guidelines, he is not getting enough vitamin A, D, folic acid, iron, selenium and zinc. Research in a Dutch hospital showed that 40% of patients at the time of admission were malnourished. So, dietary supplements are necessary."

My daily supplements include: 
  • Omega 3 (EPA and DHA)-aids mental health, brain function, heart health (good cholesterol), skin health, blood sugar control (weight control), nervous disorders, (depression and anxiety) and acts as an inflammatory in the body.  The benefits are too large to mention here. Every person should be taking an omega 3 supplement!
  • B complex- overall health. Can improve your overall metabolic performance (weight control), immune support, energy (helps with fatigue), stress control, relieves anxiety and depression, can aid skin irritations (acts as inflammatory), production of hormones - really just maintenance of general well-being. 
  • Zinc- essential for cell growth, immune support (fights off infection), aids thyroid function, supports hair and nail strength. Most people have low zinc (very few foods contain good amounts of zinc). 
    • Daily Probiotic- (My Favourite!!!) 
    • Repopulates good bacteria in your gut. This can do magic for your body! Especially good for your digestive system (bloating and IBS symptoms), weight control (can eliminate toxic build up and promote hormonal balance), your immune system (most of your immune system is in your gut!) and also fights fatigue. There is more and more research linking good bacteria in the gut to reduction of nervous disorders such as anxiety and depression. It can also aid the absorption of vitamins and minerals! I say- a probiotic a day keeps the doctor away :) 
    • I also get a monthly Vitamin B12 Injection- aids metabolism of fat and carbohydrates, maintains central nervous system (stress), and provides immune support. ( I will be injecting most of my clients with this stuff!!!).
    • When stressed or burnt out, I take the following:
      • Magnesium (at night)- detoxifies, maintains acid alkaline balance in the body and good for health functioning of nerves and muscles. Also regulates blood sugar levels (helpful in preventing Diabetes/Insulin issues). Most of the population is lacking in this underrated mineral!!
      • Adrenal Support/AdHealth (consists of siberian ginseng and withania)- assists in adrenal support, synthesis of hormones, immune support and regulates metabolism of blood sugar.

    I will conclude with this: So with no exaggeration, I have not had a sniffle, a stomach issue (not even in India!!) or even a pimple in almost 2 years now. I believe that this is due to my supplement and whole food intake! 




    NOTE: While I believe some supplements are necessary, this does not mean they can be taken in replace of a good diet. They can only enhance your health. 

    Please email me for further supplement advice or queries: 

    jessicasepel@me.com

    Affirmation of the week: I treat my body as a temple. It is holy, it is clean and it is full of goodness.



    Thursday, 23 August 2012

    Guest post of the week by Claire- Maree: The Ten Pillars of a Healthy Diet.



    In today’s modern world we are bombarded with so many food philosophies, that at times it can leave us feeling confused and a little frustrated.
    When it comes to choosing what food principles to follow, don't get bogged down with all the new food phenomenon’s. Educate yourself about foods and choose nutrient dense options. Stick to what feels right for you. Remember everybody is built different, so there is no right or wrong diet – just listen to your own body, as it will tell you what you should eat. Everything should be eaten in balance, and no crazy obsessions. Just relax, listen to your body and let it take you on its own healing journey. If you obsess too much about what you can and cannot eat, you become mentally drained and unwell. The truth is your diet should be constantly evolving; you should be learning and trying new things all the time.
    As trends come and go, yes by all means try new things as you may learn something new. Remember it is easy to get lost in all the hype of new diets and food principles, therefore to keep things simple, no matter what food principle you are currently following, choose to keep your focus on these pillars of healthy eating to keep you at optimum health.

    Eat Whole Foods – choosing whole foods is a simple way to ensure that what you eat is micronutrient dense and free of unnecessary additives. A "whole food" is any food in its most essential, pure, delicious and basic form: broccoli, a lemon, a bowl of quinoa, or a fillet of salmon. Whole foods are the ideal base for creating healthy and tasty food.

    Educate yourself where your food comes from – for example buy ethical meats. There are more and more butchers opening up that offer ethical and organic meats. Remember organic does not always mean ethical – do your research. Some common concerns to familiarise yourself with are fair trade, palm oil and free range.

    Educate yourself about what’s in the foods you eat – Once you start to understand what is in some foods, you will naturally want to start to avoid them. Start to read your labels, chances are if you cannot say the word, then your body does not know what it is and therefore does not belong in your body.

    Don’t get obsessed – learn to enjoy and savour your food. When you stress about what you can and cannot eat you make yourself mentally drained and unwell. Eat to nourish, eat to enjoy and eat everything in moderation.

    Drink 2-3 litres of water a day – water is the miracle elixir, it is the fountain of life. Without water there is no life. A glass of humble water nourishes, energizes and detoxes your body, whilst plumping out your cells to diminish fine lines and wrinkles

    Avoid processed foods  -Eliminate processed foods, artificial flavours, colours, preservatives, sweeteners, refined white foods and hydrogenated fats from your diet as much as possible. These are not natural and are therefore foreign to your body – your body has trouble digesting and breaking down these foods.

    Eat 80% Plant-based - no matter what type of diet you follow — including those that incorporate dairy, meat and/or seafood — begin to reconfigure your plate so that the majority (80%) of your meal is made from an abundance of plant-based foods. When you eat more plants — like raw and cooked vegetables, fruits, legumes and beans, nuts, seeds and whole grains — you're helping your body get the key micronutrients it needs to function at its optimal level. Eat a colourful variety of plants to ensure you're getting the best nutrients for your body.

    Eat Healthy Fats - get your healthy fats by eating whole plant-based foods like nuts, seeds and avocados. Use unsaturated fats such as olive oil, canola oil, and flaxseed oil. Some food for thought - Did you know that butter is a much healthier option than margarine? That’s right – butter is not full of all the chemicals that are in margarine.

    Eat Nutrient Dense foods – Stop counting calories and focus on eating foods that are rich in micronutrients. Your body doesn’t care about calaries, it cares about nutrition. If your having trouble with your weight, stop counting calories and add more nutritious foods, ensuring that your getting all your nutrients. A healthy body = a healthy weight. Did you know that when your body does not get enough nutrients, it can store toxins in your fat cells?

    Use supplements – understand what your body is deficient in and take the relevant vitamins and minerals. If you are unsure about what you are lacking then have a blood test. A good quality vitamin C 1000mg and multi-vitamin is a good start.

    About Claire:
    Online personality, holistic lifestyle coach, author and entrepreneur Claire Charters founded the holistic lifestyle blog Serene Wellness. Claire works hard to create a wholesome path to wellness through her writing along with her unique tours and retreats. Her articles on health, wellness and spirituality can be found on various sites. She has a growing community of people following her on her blog, Facebook and twitter. She also run’s free courses which are designed to inspire people to start living their best holistic life. Read more about Claire.

    Sunday, 19 August 2012

    Jess’s steps to optimal health and wellness



    How I manage to stay healthy...





    What works!

    Eat well

    I eat clean, unprocessed foods as close to their natural state as possible.

    This is the absolute benchmark for good health, but beyond the basics, there are a few tricks to optimise your nutrition.

    Alkaline foods
    The body has a natural pH level that makes it easy to sustain good health. According to many alternative health theories and natural medicine practitioners, an acidic environment can lead to problems and discomfort in the body over time. This is why we want to eat to create an alkaline body – a pH of around 7.365 to 7.4. The lower the pH number, the more acidic you are. An acidic body does not absorb vitamins, minerals and other nutrients, is starved of oxygen and bears a reduced ability to repair cells. Diseases and ill health thrive in an acidic environment. However, if you have an alkaline body it will heal readily, be more oxygenated and help you reverse and prevent disease. Many naturopaths argue that by eating 'alkaline producing' foods, we can modify the body's prevailing pH levels and boost wellbeing. Some common examples of acidic and alkaline foods are:
    Acidic
    Meat, dairy, salt, sugar, fried and processed foods, alcohol and coffee.
    Alkaline
    Greens, veggies, fruits, whole grains, nuts, seeds, sprouts, apple cider vinegar.

    If you want to create this alkaline environment in your body, or just generally boost your metabolism and clear out your pipes, we need to say bye bye to these sickening six:

    1)   Sugar
    2)  Artificial Sweetener (soda, gum, "sugar-free" anything)
    3)  Fructose
    4)  Refined carbs (cereals and processed breads)
    5)  Soy milk
    6)  Caffeine

    I admit, I do give in to caffeine occasionally but it's addictive and habit forming: it promotes adrenaline and stress hormones that can unbalance your natural equilibrium.  There's some evidence that coffee can be good for you in small doses, but (and here's the kicker) coffee is not good for you, especially when you're stressed!

    Mark Sisson of Mark's Daily Apple puts it this way:
    "The reason why is cortisol, the stress hormone. Coffee elevates it, so when you’re stressed out, which already increases your cortisol, and you start pounding the coffee, you’re going to compound the problem. Some studies have found that only hypertensive and borderline hypertensive people have increased cortisol responses to coffee at rest, but everyone appears to get the coffee/cortisol effect when under psychosocial stress... Drink it 'when you don’t need it. Drink it when you’re not stressed."

    Read more  here

    Protein Push

    So, in recent times, there has been a bit of controversy about macronutrient ratios: carbs, fat and protein. A general agreement that excessive processed carbohydrates lead to ill health and weight gain was followed by a big anti-carb movement. Then, studies came out questioning the safety of increased protein intake for kidney health.

    Now. I most certainly do not eat or advocate a low carb and high protein diet BUT study after study has proven that a moderate and sustained increase in protein intake will prolong satiety, stabilize blood sugar and regulate your hormone balance, as well as assisting in workout recovery, muscle optimisation and immune resilience.

    So we need to add protein to each meal and eat THE RIGHT kinds of carbs, fruits and wholegrains. (see my blog entry on this). 

    Superfoods

    It is hard to maintain the right balance nowadays, even when you're trying to eat healthily, as our bodies are being constantly bombarded with unnatural stimuli: chemicals, food additives, radiation and electromagnetic frequencies that we are not evolved or equipped to deal with. While in a pure environment, our bodies could be relied on to deal with toxic input through our normal waste management functions, in the modern world we need to pay deliberate attention to detoxifying our cells and internal organs, through exercise, water intake and proper nutrition. Most of us have an accumulation of toxic build up in our bodies without even knowing it. Toxic build up will stop our bodies from achieving a state of optimal health.

    Certain superfoods have been discovered to help us find that balance and bring to our lives the energy, vibrancy and motivation that we so need and deserve. Superfoods are very high in antioxidants which help our bodies fight infection, recover from exercise, maintain health and even slow down the ageing process! (see my blog entry for my favourite superfoods). 


    Brain Power/ Spirit Level

    With the wealth of scientific data available to those seeking health, we often underestimate the power of the mind. The strength of our bodies, and our sense of wellness are so profoundly tied in with mental health. Depression, stress and fatigue can lead to a sense of despair that spirals into ill health and early death.

    Feeling anxiety spikes hormones in your body that strain your organs, compounding bad habits and knock-on effects that can make health almost impossible. We've all seen the gaunt, grey faced, sleep deprived corporate worker, determined to stay 'healthy' with aggressive exercise and diet regimes, and we've all seen the heart attack statistics for this demographic too.

    There are a number of things we can do to create a strong wholesome mind, the foundation of lifelong wellbeing as well as physical and mental resilience.

    Mindful Eating & Intuitive Eating
    Respect your hunger + fullness

    Relax with food - Make food choices that honor your health and foods that make you feel well. Food should make you feel good, even AFTER you've finished eating it. The instant gratification of a grease/sugar/salt bomb will be followed by queasy regret and poor energy and health outcomes.

    On the other hand, be kind to yourself. Remember that you don’t have to eat a perfect diet to be healthy all day, everyday. You will not suddenly endure a nutrient deficiency or gain weight from one indulgent meal. What we're interested in is building positive habits of mind, a sense of strong self-satisfaction and joy. We can support this journey with our dietary and lifestyle choices and in the end, it’s those habits that count. It’s what you eat consistently over time that matters. Your body is there for you- supporting you as much as possible.

    Make Peace with Food

    When you teach yourself to PAY ATTENTION to you, you can give yourself permission to eat. You can TRUST YOURSELF. If you tell yourself that you can’t or shouldn’t have a particular food, you're treating yourself like a rebellious child - pretending that you don't have control over your own body and its desires. This kind of split-personality thinking, where you 'forbid' yourself treats can lead to intense feelings of deprivation that build into uncontrollable cravings and, often, binging. I used to obsess about each and every food that passed my lips and it only ever did more harm than good. I believe that negative feelings associated with eating are worse for your health than the actual ‘bad food’ itself. Let’s work towards building a good relationship with our bodies.

    Get off the ….. Diets

    Say goodbye to fad diets…. They clearly don’t work!  Or we would have all be on it and stayed on it right? Reject the Diet Mentality. Throw out the diet books and magazine articles that offer you false hope of losing weight quickly, easily, and permanently. They are all manipulative lies. They are the reason why we have a complicated relationship with food. It makes me angry!

    Detoxed Body

    I start my day with lemon water or apple cider vinegar to cleanse the liver and de-acidify my body.

    Once your body is free of all the sludge that is weighing it down, it will be able to perform at its optimum. You will think better, feel better, look better, burn fat better and you will be able to listen to the real needs and wants of your body.
    I've given up on spray tan and perfume; you're just misting toxins into your body.

    I use natural skin products (I love Evohe) or if you are on a budget and cannot afford the more perishable and therefore more expensive natural products, you can use organic coconut, olive or jojoba oil on your face as moisturiser and cleanser.

    You can also create a cleansing mask with powdered green tea and coconut oil, or a sugar scrub to exfoliate naturally.

    Active life

    Key word: active that does not mean compulsively exercising 2x a day to 'burn away' your 'diet sins'! This is a seductive and prevailing psychology and one that is dangerous to genuine wellbeing. Science is telling us to exercise less, but smarter!

    I’ve noticed people have listed to the importance of exercise. Good! But dont take it the extreme. We are not designed to push our bodies to the limit, day after day. Yes, we must keep active but general movement, play and 2/3x of 30 minutes of interval training a week is enough for our bodies to burn energy, keep hearts healthy and keep our metabolism at optimal level.  If we overdo the gym we exhaust our adrenals, which are a central part of our endocrine system-hormones. Overtraining in this way depletes us, and leaves us hormonally unbalanced, releasing stress hormone cortisol, which enhances belly fat storage and suffering from fatigue, insomnia and musculoskeletal breakdown.

    Rather than churning and grinding on a cardio machine for hours each day, try lower impact activities with a mental health aspect to enhance your joy and body-awareness.

    I am a big fan of yoga, pilates or body balance to get you back in touch with your real self, and get you out of the habit of clockwatching through cardio staring at the TV, or blasting out your music while trying to forget your body and black out the pain of your body telling you what it really needs.

    I exercise for 30 minutes 3-4x a week. My favourite is HIIT – high intensity interval training - run and sprint for 20 minutes and the rest core work and weight training. I work hard, and then I give myself the next day off to recover. Recovery means a happy body and a healthy mind!

    An intense workout when you’re highly stressed can temporarily feel good, but then powerwash you with aches and fatigue. Distress causes the body to go into crisis response: it cannibalizes muscle, stores fat, induces fatigue, introduces nerve pains, allows muscle strains, enables injures, exhibits anxiety and depression, impairs cognitive function, creativity and problem-solving, manifests flu-like illnesses and eventually fosters disease. Why? Because your body is smarter than you are. It’s doing everything possible to make you tone it down, slow it down and recover. And the longer you ignore its requests, the louder the demands will become.  

    Sleep

    I say it over and over and over. 8 HOURS SLEEP. Let your body and mind repair themselves and detox yourself into health by sleeping more! See my blog entry on this point, but I cannot stress it enough. Sleep "knits up the ravelled sleeve of care" - don't let yourself get pulled to pieces.

    Supplements

    There is constant debate on this topic but I believe in supplementation and here is why….
    Depleted Soils! Even if you eat a healthy, predominantly plant-based diet with lots of fruit and vegetables, chances are (unless you’re consuming everything organic) the food comes from soils that have insufficient mineral content. When foods are grown over and over again in the same soils, the mineral content of that soil becomes depleted over time.
    Processed foods/additives: Most foods these days are loaded with sweeteners, salt and preservatives etc. These additives can all lead to toxic build up in our bodies that can cause an imbalance in our hormones and other bodily functions. 
    Supplements can help detoxify our bodies from these additives.  

    Here is the research to back me up...

    According to Dr Gert Schuitemaker, Ph.D:  "In the Netherlands, a report of the Dutch Health Council states that less than 2% of the population is eating according to official dietary guidelines. Moreover, the authorities state that, even if a person is eating according to the dietary guidelines, he is not getting enough vitamin A, D, folic acid, iron, selenium and zinc. Research in a Dutch hospital showed that 40% of patients at the time of admission were malnourished. So, dietary supplements are necessary."

    My daily supplements:

    Fish oil
    Magnesium
    Probiotic
    B complex
    When stressed: Siberian ginseng

    Less stress

    I've mentioned cortisol a few times in this article. I take its dangers and impact on my body very seriously. I am committed to putting as little stress on my body as possible.

    When you have too much stress in too many different aspects of your life, and that stress turns chronic chemicals released in your body start to devour itself and fragment your nervous system. Continuing with patterns of excessive stress can turn your endocrine system into a cannibal and lead to disease, weight gain and unhappiness!!!!

    How I control my stress…

    This is a mental as well as a physical game. Stress can be environmentally induced, and exacerbated by lifestyle choices and bad 'habits of mind'.

    Don't let yourself become pessimistic!

    Figure out what works for you, and do it!

    Meditation can be immensely helpful in keeping stress under control as well as yoga and keeping a system where your prioritise your own health. Think about food journals, gratitude journals and more practically, to-do lists! Don't let the world get on top of you: remember you can't control the world, but your choice is in how you react. Try Deepak Chopra’s 21 day meditation challenge.

    Downtime

    Is vital! SLOW DOWN AND BREATHE!

    We are expected to go go go and not break. And when we do have a break we feel guilty. WHAT IS THIS?? We need to SLOW down, breathe, take it all in and stop rushing. Recent studies show that solitude is immensely important; spending as little as 1/2 an hour of your time alone per day can increase wellbeing exponentially.

    When was the last time you took 30 minutes to be alone, without a radio, television, computer, phone or companion. Think about it. I don't like to think about it, with my busy lifestyle but it makes an incredible difference. Try to get those 30 minutes in.

    What I do to relax:

    •       Hot bath every evening-with lavender/Epsom salts (only 3x/week with Epsom allowed)
    •       Tea time with a friend or favourite podcast
    •       Read
    •       Walk
    •       Lie in the sun


    Gratitude

    Want to bring more happiness to your life? Well then be THANKFUL for what you do have, and you will attract more good things!

    I wake up every morning and write down 5 things I am grateful for----can you do the same?

    Also see my blog entry on the power of vision boards, which are a great way to manifest your dreams into reality. By making your wishes concrete, putting them out of your mind and in front of your eyes, you begin to see and build the path towards them.

    Respect your body

    Give it love and praise. Like many young women, it took me a long time to achieve this. But the good news, with some self-work and self love you can do it. The second I did, my body worked in my favour; it healed itself. I nourished it with love and care. I filled it with foods from the earth and healthy flora and it has rewarded me with a feeling of health, happiness and an incredible sense of my own grounded self and my own agency in the world. I feel like I can do anything, and part of what I want to do... is share this feeling with you!


    Affirmation of the week: I love and care for my body and it cares for me.